to nurfarahin:
sure sis :) n i'll link u too~
to aidah, nadiah n nizam:
sedih laa tgk perangai dia mcm tu. never expect my "little" sis to behave like that. dia da sedar n promised not to repeat her mistakes. but susahlaa nak lupakan. n yes, nadiah, like what u wrote in ur tag the other day, luka di hati susah sikit nak dirawat. when the situation arises, i realised that it really is not that easy to forgive n forget. another weakness of mine...
kalau dulu rasa sayang kat dia, skrg ni bila terpandang wajah dia kat rumah, dah mcm tawar je hati. dah kurang sgt (harap2 belum terhakis sepenuhnya) rasa kasih pada dia... :(
Thursday, December 14, 2006
My Reply
posted by .:Mujahidah Khadijah:. at 12/14/2006 09:51:00 AM
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At 12/14/2006 12:47 PM,
.:Mujahidah Khadijah:."its gd tat u feel sad.. means u are close to her and u care for her... tats y u are affected in a way or so... "
>> psl rapat laa susah nk maafkan. kalau org lain, my friends for example, or even my 3rd bro (slalu gaduh dgn dia. heh), tak kisah sgt. the impact wouldn't be that strong. yes, as humans, we do make mistake. that, i cannot deny.
but she was 100% conscious while she did that to me. teruk awk tau. just put it that my specs sampai 'nazak'. cannot be used anymore. that, n because she made mom very sad, was OVER the limit. she really need to be taught a leasson.
anw, dun worry. i'm alright. biase je. wouldn't let such a stupid incidence affect my life. haa.
n somehow i'm sure as time passes by, kita dgn dia will be on good terms again...
.....but it will take time. -
khadijah!!!
alhamdulillah.. awk da feeling ok.. gd gd... specs awk da nazak?? hahaha....
ok then... air dicincang tk akan putus.. (btw, asal air eh klw dipikrkan, angin pon blh juga pe.. haha..just a thought btw.. ;))
"n somehow i'm sure as time passes by, kita dgn dia will be on good terms again...
.....but it will take time. .." insyaAllah... moga2 ukhuwwah itu akan lebih akrab diantara awk n si dia..:)
wallahu'alam...
Asalamu'alaikum wr wb..
khad.. :) kt harap awk doing just fine...
i read ur post about "my reply".. :)
to me.. pendapat nizam.. i feel... she ought to be given a 2nd chance.. i understand that watever she did may hurt u a lot.. somehow affects u mentally.. physically..emotionally.....and all the 'ly's... (hehe)..
as i said in my previous tag.. she is still in an age where she yet to know what is pain.. what is love.. what is respect.. and yg sewaktu dgn nya.. manusia khad..
nizam pon mcm gitu dulu... i dunno what is parents love.. i dunno what is siblings love.. i dunno what is love to mankind..nature.. etc... but as we ages.. we see the world..slowly.. it opens up our mind.. our hearts... and our thinking of certain things that happen in life.. thus making us mature..
i also have 2 sis... a big brother.. but i dun scold my sis.. mistakes they make.. i tell them.. "look its wrong.." klw marah pon, stakat cramp kan muke je... nothing more... becoz i believe..they are in a process whre they yetto know all these..(most of the time i serahkan to my big bro..haha)
its gd tat u feel sad.. means u are close to her and u care for her... tats y u are affected in a way or so...
but khad.. think rationally.. jgn ikotkan emosi ok... i believe..she will faham one day.. wat u need to do is just talk to her nicely... yes it hurts to see her.. but put that behind.. afterall..shes ur sis.. ur darah daging.. and ur responsibility to play a part in educating her.. not the quantity of edu..but the quality of it... :)
awk bykkn bersabar ok khad... always find a better solutions to problems tat u faced... all problems ade jalan penyelesaian nye.. enjoy every problems that u faced... n believe that Allah knows who He is testing... sabar k khad... :)
u take gd care... dun sad2.. be happy..
wallahu'alam... yg baik dari Allah.. yang tak baik dari diri nizam sendiri.. hope tis comments make u feel better... :) and maafkan nizam klw ade kate2 yg menyinggung perasaan awk.. :)
ma'asslamah..