Melaka Trip over. Lots of walking. 'New' Melaka (compared to my last visit which was like... 15 years ago??). The foods are quite pricey. Many historical facts discovered (and yet to be discovered once I get to read more, insyaAllah). The sec 4 '14 batch are easy to get along with, despite me never getting to teach most of them before (':
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Huda's nikah & walimah was actually over! Subhanallah... Mcm tak caye awk dah nikah (:
The 'experience' of being the 'make-up artist' (as Hidayah put it -_-")... Paisey sungguh. Hope i was of some teeny bit of help on your Big Day though, ya Huda (':
Alhamdulillah & mubaarak to the blessed 'aruusaini. Ameen.
Speaking of walimah, in general I was disturbed by some 'mentalities' of our people:
"Kalau tak pergi majlis org, nanti org tak hadir majlis kita..."
"Dia tak pergi majlis org, abeh dia ingatkan org akan pergi majlis dia???!!!"
... And the likes of it.
Yes, Islam did teach us to accept people's invitation. But just because people did not turn up, doesn't mean we can make negative assumptions of them, and "seek revenge"...
If only everyone will just focus and scrutinise one's own self...
Niat hadir majlis orang pun nanti dah berubah. Bukan krn Nabi suruh (dpt pahala! Dgn syarat majlisnya tidak mengandungi unsur2 maksiat)/ menggembirakan hati saudara/ mengeratkan tali silaturrahim...
Tetapi sebaliknya kerana "takut nanti org tak pergi majlis kita kang.."
Bermakna: kalau anaknya semua dah kahwin, dah tak perlu 'takut' & boleh 'relax' tak perlu hadiri majlis2 yang lain?
Teringat pula 'kes' pelajar2 madrasah yang mentang-mentang dah terima Buku Laporan (Report Book) & keputusan akhir bagi pengajian mereka, lalu tidak menghadiri majlis2 ilmu (termasuk majlis talaqqi kitab!!!) yang dianjurkan walhal mereka digalakkan agar hadir & ambil manfaat darinya...
Adakah kerana "tiada markah" akan diberikan?
Tujuan seorang pelajar itu: sekadar markah yang bagus??
Aaah! Mentaliti sebegini perlu diubah!
Rugi sendiri!
.... Lalu bagaimanakah bangsaku akan maju & bangkit sepantas yang lain??? :(
#monolog
#muhasabahdirimusendiriwahaiKhadijah!
