ever since my return to Homeland, I've had the time to go online daily.
which also means that I log in to my FB account almost everyday.
personally, I still prefer expressing my thoughts and feelings at my khad-safiy.
more comfortable and "cosy" ;)
Meanwhile, it seems that some users really "let off their steam" at their FB walls.
yes, FB is now made to be at the tips of our fingertips. but self-control is still ought to be practised.
besides that, I also noticed that there are quite a few who post quite intimate pictures of themselves with their spouses. some using them as their profile pictures.
Yes, undoubtedly, dah halal.
cumanya yang ter-nampak, rasa segan. malu. I don't know if it's just me, but really, a lot of ghaddul basar (lowering of the gaze) has to be practised while online.
ya Rabb... hati ini, perlu dijaga sentiasa. and i'm pretty sure those kind of pictures aren't helping the viewers to keep the hearts clean. especially for those who are not yet married (but having the intention to do so).
honestly, I'm not so worried about myself. I'm more worried for the brothers out there especially. org lelaki ni kadangkala menyeramkan :S
jadi, untuk kemaslahatan bersama, rasanya lebih manis dan sesuai agar kemesraan yang teramat (seperti bercumbuan) antara suami isteri dikongsi antara mereka sahaja. kalau setakat gambar duduk sama2 atau pimpin tangan tu oklah :)
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all in all, i guess i'll still check out FB at least 5 times a week. (not sure when i've started working full-time next year though). because to date, i've learnt quite a lot of things. from the posts, and the links that my friends share. Alhamdulillah... at this very moment, i've just came across this. the previous 3 articles that I read from the same website were good!
...not to forget that FB also makes keeping in touch with some of my friends easier :)
nevertheless, i feel that i've to practise more self-restraint. as in, to prioritise other important tasks that my attention, rather than checking out the posts and links. first is a need. while the latter is something that I can do when the time permits. because time really flies when u're in the FB world.
ya Rabb...
to myself:
"from tomorrow onwards, do practise the above words Khadijah! buat apa yang patut dulu! discipline yourself Khadijah! that's the way of the Mujahidah!
insyaAllah... :')
