ni nak share sebuah hadith yang dipelajari minggu lalu. tentang Sabar.
mcm dah selalu dengar je?
iye, mmg dah selalu sgt perkataan "sabar" tu diperkatakan orang. sama ada kita yg suruh org lain sabar, atau kita disuruh agar bersabar.
tapi bilakah saat sabar itu benar2 dituntut? atau dalam erti kata yang lain, apakah definisi "sabar" yang sebenar-benarnya?
dalam Perbahasan dan Fiqhul Hadith (Sahih Bukhari) tersebut, "sabar" itu Rasulullah definisikan sebagai Sabar ketika kita baru sahaja mendapat berita tentang sesuatu musibah. saat2 awal. itulah dia sebenar-benar sabar, yang sempurna, dan yang dituntut dlm Islam.
a'ah. bukan dah kutuk, sumpah-seranah berbakul2, tumbuk/pukul orang, melalak atau meraung2 for the first 30 mins ke... then baru apabila ditenangkan org dia sabar. nope. tu dah terlambat....
dlm hadith ni diceritakan tntg kisah wanita yg kematian anak lelakinya. lalu beliau meraung di kuburan, dan ditegur oleh Rasulullah dgn cara yg berhikmah. tapi beliau sebaliknya menyuruh Rasulullah pergi (she didn't know she was speaking to Rasulullah 'alaihis solaatu wassalam in the first place laa).... then after some time, after getting to know from a sahabah whom she was speaking to just now (Rasulullah had left), she went to apologise, n claimed that she is being patient (n she was, at that moment). n that was when Rasulullah gently told her the real meaning of Sabr :)
this, made me ponder n reflect upon myself. all this while when i thought that i was being patient... was i really patient? or did i only practise patience after a time lapse? bila dah puas mengamok kat orang, dah puas menangis, membebel2 (ntah ape2 yg mepek je yg keluar dr mulut ni gaknye eh time depress/sedih/merajuk/stress... :S)... ish. ingat tu Khadijah: Sabar yg sebenar-benarnya ialah pada saat2 AWAL terkena musibah, saat2 dapat berita buruk...
wokeh. tu je sharing buat kali ini ye. sampai berjumpa lagi insyaAllah ye~ (hehe)
p.s. does anyone know of any English Tafsir class or anyone who is qualified enough to conduct a tafsir class (starting from the 4th Juz or so) for an European Muslimah? North area. There's this super nice lady who is very enthu n eager to learn tafsir n at the moment learning it weekly thru the phone, all the way from America! maasyaAllah! she asked me, but i'm neither qualified nor confident nor experienced enough to conduct a tafsir class at a higher level. berat tanggungjawab tu. hmm~ tengok kesungguhan dia.... menginsafkan. sedangkan kita ni yang dah dilahirkan sebagai Muslim, kadangkala kurang, atau tidak ambil peduli langsung tentang mendalami 'ilm agama ni kan....
p.p.s. family n me (14 of us -incomplete still. some couldn't get leave from work) are going to KL this Sunday for a vacation, till Wednesday insyaAllah. this will be my very first time stepping into KL. huu~ do du'a for us k? baarakallaahu feekum :)
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