Macam lama gitu tak update blog ni kan?
Inni aasifah. Ada beberapa halangan. Sekarang ni orang kat Saff Centre, bersama Nadiah tersayang dan seorang adik manis, Sa’adah.
Sebenarnya org nak kongsi ‘ilm ni (insyaAllah :))
Pasal C.I.N.T.A. (chey2~ korang suker kan? Eleh. Malu2 konOn! =P)
this was taken from the lib book i just finished reading. great book i must say. super motivational, making u feel as if u wanna get married straight away. heh. (tebiat kan? tau takper~)
but hey, persediaan belum banyak (instead of the usual "orang belum bersedia lagi laa" answer people tend to give when faced with such question -more on this later), 'ilm pun cetek sgt... lagipun tak nak "langkah bendOl" (=P). tgh tunggu kad2 walimah my seniors ni: kak Raihana, kak Hafizah Watib, Kak Khatim, Kak 'Izzah, n of course the seniors fr Nur Ikhwan & NYPMS: Sis Nisa, sis Sarah, sis Fiza, Sis Saqinah, Asrul, Mohksin, Imran, Adi, Remy... n not forgetting sis Ruqa! ;)
*continued on 7 Rabiulawal 1427H*
anw, back to the sharing:
Ada 3 jenis cinta yang seharusnya dilakukan:
1.Cintailah Allah, maka Allah akan mencintai kita.
2.Cintailah apa yang dicintai Allah
3.Cintailah sesuatu yang bisa mendatangkan cinta Allah (i.e amal salih)
Penulis juga menyarankan jika cinta sudah terlanjur menyapa dalam kondisi diri belum siap mental, kewangan dan spiritual untuk menikah, maka hendaknya jangan mengambil jalan pintas dengan pacaran. Kerana pacaran bukan jawapan. ia hanya menjanjikan kesenangan semu dan fatamorgana. namun hendaknya kamu memendam perasaan itu dalam hatimu. biarlah hanya kamu dan Allah saja yang tahu. (tsk2. part ni touching gitu~)
Sebaiknyalah kita berdoa semoga Allah menguatkan diri dan mempersiapkan hati untuk menyegera menikah. segera dan bukan tergesa-gesa, kerana keduanya benar2 berbeza. (betol tu! saya sokong =D)
Penulis juga menarik perhatian:
ramai orang bila ditanya bila mau nikah, akan dijawabnya: “saya belum bersedia”. Padahal sehari-hari mereka tidak melakukan persiapan untuk menikah. mereka hanya mengisi kesibukan yang tidak akan memudahkan mereka menikah. usia mereka sudah baligh, namun masih belum berani mengeksplorasi kemampuan dan kemahuan.
And me personally, LOVE this part:
Nikah adalah jalan yang akan bermuara pada lahirnya keturunan, putra puteri Islam penerus perjuangan. Yang lebih gagah, lebih perkasa dari ayahnya. Yang lebih cantik dan lebih menarik dari ibunya. Hingga dunia menjadi semakin bersinar, perjuangan Islam menjadi semakin cemerlang, dengan pernikahan yang disegerakan, dan keturunan yang dihasilkan dari sebuah niatan nikah untuk ibadah dan kesetiaan.
actually there's alot more interesting points to share, but i guess i shall stop here. takut nnt parents complain to me anak2 dorang dah sebOk nak kawin lepas bace gue punye blog. =P
ok dah. cukup. bukan main lagi budak2 ni bebual pasal nikah eh? kerja pun belum dapat lagi....
hah! speaking of which, i earnestly seek ur kindness (my intan payung~) to remember me in ur du'as k? du'akanlah Khadijah cepat dapat kerja yang sesuai. a.s.a.p. can't afford to waste any more time. the other day i received a request to apply for an Arabic Speaking Customer Service Officer. went for the interview (turned out that it's only 20% Arabic), n the lady commented that my voice is a bit too soft. yek eleh. pelan pun salah. kasar sgt pun salah. shift jobs pulak tu. nah. anw, don't think i'm suited for such jobs. nak kene cakaaaaaaap byk2. kesian nnt mulut ni penat.
......wanna share something beautiful with all of u:
lawaaaa nah kan??! (angguk laa kalau iye pOn ;p)
ni baru betul punyer "Love at First Sight". thanks to Maryam Osman who first noticed the book (@ Muslimedia.com), and my Nad for holding the book for me. the funny thing is, the contents are in Bahasa Indonesia. koq gitu deh? misleading habes~ ;p
btw, no. i didn't buy the book. already have lotsa books on my idol (yup yup, me adore her alot, after Rasulullah sollallaahu 'alaihi wasallam. can't thank my family enough for naming me after her. berkat insyaAllah ye ayah? ;))
instead, i bought The Ideal Muslim by Muhammad Ali al-Hashimi (actually wanted to buy The Ideal Muslimah, but unfortunately, it was sold out. ceh. takpe~ next time insyaAllah k Khadijah? :)), Don't Be Sad by 'Aaidh ibn Abdullah al-Qarni, n some books for my nephews n nieces.
the children books are soooo nicely illustrated n written, i couldn't resist buying them. one is a basic du'a book, with all the dzikr that can be easily practised by children, and another (Diyanah also love this book) is an A to Z of Akhlaaq: Moral Values for Children. instead of the usual "A is for Apple", here, every alphabet is related to the deen. such as "K is for Keeping A Promise, it's not an easy task. However, it has to be fulfilled, before ever being asked."
then below there's a picture of a little girl in hijab running in the rain with a present in hand, to attend her friend's 'Eid Party, bcoz she has promised so. next is a picture of her friend looking sooo glad when she arrived.
comel sgt laa~ P is for Patience, Q is for Qur'aan, R is for Respect, S is for Salaam..... iloveiloveiloveit!!
few days back i finished wrapping all the books. weE~ hope they'll last till my own children cum my little Mujahids n Mujahidahs (ameen!) are able to read. *smiles*
p.s. i came across this video @ YouTube. perhaps an alternative in introducing the Arabic alphabets to our children? ;) my sister used to sing it when i was small, so more or less the rythm of the song is engraved on my mind~
